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Monday, July 11th 2005

10:02 AM

Rich people are SO RUDE sometimes.

Need to vent here, and this seems like a GOOD PLACE to do it...at least some of you can get a laugh or two out of my angst and frustration.

As most of you know, I'd taken on a large landsccaping job, finished it, and bid on another one.  I got the second job...or, at least so I'd thought.  The couple had me over to their home, we talked about the project at some length, and they were impressed enough to ask me to work up a detailed bid on the project...no small task.

I gave them the estimate, and they had some more questions, so made a SECOND trip to their home, and then came home and worked some more and fined tuned the estimate for them.  The total estimate if they had everything done would have been right at about $35,000.

They finally contacted me, and said they could not afford this season to do more than $20,000, and was it possible to divide the large project into two phases...NOT A PROBLEM, so I did some more figuring and mapping out and called them back with what now amounted to two separate projects, the immediate one for $20,000 and a phase II that would be done at some future date to be determined.

They loved my work, loved my proposal and said the job was mine, and they wanted me to start as soon as possible...we agreed that I would pick up a deposit for $10,000 last week, and start on July 18th as soon as my wife and I were back from vacation.  In short, I was given the go ahead to start the job, which I did.

I priced out materials, made arrangements to sublet out certain parts of the job, lined up my labor force, and spent some out of pocket money on things I would not have purchased had I not had the job.  Well, I get a call last week on Wednesday asking me to hold off picking up the check until after her husband returned from Toronto, as he was there trying a big case, and would be home on Sunday. 

This morning, I call up the wife to see if I can come over early, as I needed to pay for various materials I had RESERVED from my various suppliers, and was told, "Gee Sherwood, I was going to call you earlier, but after looking at things carefully, our finances are a bit tight, and we have decided to hold off on the project until the spring...we'd still like to use you, and hope you understand.  This doesn't really inconvenience you does it, sure you have other things to keep you busy."

EXCUSE ME?  I'm a SMALL BUSINESS PERSON, I can only do so much work, and once I have inked in a particular time from on my calendar (three weeks in the HEART OF THE SEASON), I have no choice but to stop looking for additional work to fill that time slot in my business calendar.  Also, what about all the pre-job prep work that has been done, what about my reputation with my suppliers?  What about the time I now have to spend CANCELLING everything I'd already put in motion?  Materials are not going to be the same price next year they were this year, so all the pricing work I'd done based on the fact I had the job is GONE...two days, two days that I would have billed out at $800 a day!  Another two days drawing up a more detailed plan for the landscaping project, lining up qualified workers for the time period, and choosing what types of planting materials I wanted to work into the landscaping, the kinds of statuary I wanted to go with my vision...yes, another $1600 GONE.  Now I am going to have to spend half a day cancelling orders, and I have to eat a couple of tools I'd purchased specifically FOR THIS JOB.  All told, I am out about $4,000....

When I bid out a job, these are costs that are factored into the costs...I know that I have a lot of work that gets done BEFORE I ever set foot on the property, before I take shovel to the earth and start creating.  Maybe to them, cancelling out at the last minute is no big deal, they are still living in their million dollar home, still have a nanny taking care of their kids, and a person who keeps up their home for them...but what about ME?  That money had ALREADY BEEN EAR MARKED, that money when it came in recouped my cash outlays, and PAID A MONTH of our living expenses here!  We in one phone call have gone from having a bit of a cushion to suddenly being CAUGHT SHORT, and scrambling suddenly to figure out how to make our ends meet.

Is it just me, or is this kind of behavior CALLOUS and UNFAIR?  Why seek a bid on a big project if you cannot afford it right now, why accept the bid and tell people you want them to start before you have gone over your own finances and know ABSOLUTELY that you can afford the work.  Are they really so naive that they do not realize how unfair their actions were and are?  Or, do they just don't care, are they so immersed in their own selfish pursuits that they just don't care about anyone else, don't really care if their actions hurt people that are not as well off financially as they are?  I can understand not making my profit on the work that has not been done, but what about the work I've ALREADY DONE, the work I HAVE TO DO TO CANCEL STUFF, do they think people like us just show up the day such a project starts, and magically HAVE EVERYTHING READY TO GO?

Enough ranting...I'm really crushed right now, feel betrayed, lied to and manipulated, and think I am going to go off and cry in my proverbial beer for a bit.

Dream Dragon

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Posted by Lucky_star:

My dear Dragon.
After reading your post i was so angry and believe it or not i felt i was in your shoes and could've cried!!
Sadly there are lots of people like this,selfish and thoughtless.
I had a small business once and learnt a few lessons albeit, too late.
Its always the trusting nature that gets exploited. In the future if i was you i would have the coustomer sign a contract after the agreement and ask for a small deposit, perhaps 10% of the total cost.
I hope you are able to get another job soon to cover your costs.
Monday, July 25th 2005 @ 5:24 AM

Posted by Rainbow:

Is there a way that you can require people to pay a non-refundable down payment before you even start doing anything with the project?
Monday, August 29th 2005 @ 1:45 AM

Posted by Peter King:

Unfortunately there are many in this world to whom the word commitment means nothing. I to have suffered at the hands of people like these. Now I am in a business where nothing gets done before a non-refundable deposit is paid.

Good luck to you in the future.:)
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